................And the bad days just keep coming.............

Yesterday my best friend sent me a text at 8:30am saying she was moving out of her ex boyfriends house that they had both been living in.  She left him because he left her twice when she was seven months pregnant to go back to his ex girlfriend.  I think he's a very confused individual.  I really love my best friend so at 10 am I was at the house with three of my children in tow.  I spend the entire day until 7 pm helping her move everything that was hers.  The guys ex girlfriend drove by and called him or texted him, who really knows.  One thing led to another and within 10 minutes he was as the house very mad that she was leaving and didn't tell him.  Although she really did, so his anger was not justifiable.  And the fact that he left his pregnant girlfriend gives him no right to be mad.  He left her.  I was so mad.  I stayed at the house the whole time to make sure he couldn't lock her out without getting all of her things and that's what we did.  The neighbor came over and helped with the washer, dryer and fridge but I did the rest with the help of my friend.  I was not letting anything happen to her.  I love her.  Anyway, as far as I'm concerned she is back where she belongs and never should have left so I'm happy for her.

  BUT...for me...today was not a great day.  My son dumped two whole boxes of cereal on my sofa then a bag of corn puffs lol.  I love him so much.  As I was vacuuming them up he says "mommy look at these" and is poking his nipples....he then told me his baby sister needed to eat from them.  What a sweetie.  I laughed before I told him that she can only eat from mommy's boobies.  He's such an incredible little man.  I'm so upset his daddy is missing this.  I can handle being alone, but what I can't handle is my husband missing the children's early years.  I mean these are the important years of their lives and he's missing them.  I love him so much and I know he loves me.  He would do absolutely anything for me and that makes me feel more special than he knows.  I have to go get everyone to bed.  Hoping the good days come back soon....he'll be home in 12 days I'm so happy and we are going to surprise the children by taking them to Great Wolf Lodge so hopefully that will give us much needed make-up family time.

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